Try teasing your partner like you’re also a music streaming service who refuses to give in to Taylor Swift's demands.
Lauren suggests “setting the stage” with a quick call or flirty text that will make your partner really look forward to talking with you.
Try sending off a “can’t wait to hear your voice tonight,” to leave them wanting more.
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And for sexy situations: caught with an erection, caught masturbating, being alone in a castle, deserted beach, or BDSM party.
Lauren says just like with IRL sex, it’s important to reconnect after phone sex with laughter and wind down talk after you both orgasm.
Treating phone sex as sexy little appetizing pieces can help take some of the pressure off.
It’s perfectly acceptable to tell your partner these are your fantasies for phone sex only, and not fantasies for reality.
Another way to lead your partner into it if you’re both feeling awkward, is to set up a roleplay scenario. For example, “Remember when we were in Aruba and I was teasing you on the beach with my cleavage and later the sex was soooo hot?