Many Aquarians are amused by narrow minded people, and aren't beyond doing or saying things purely to see the reaction they get.
They aren't aggressive people per se, but they can be a little mischievous in this area!
She can be hesitant about making a total commitment such as marriage, or any other form of partnership, because of her strong desire for independence.
However, when an Aquarian marries, the marriage is usually stable.
This is always a hard question to answer, as one person's idea of kinky can be very different to someone else's.